Hey everyone,
I’m 13 and I was recently diagnosed with both autism and ADHD. I found out last week, and I’ve been trying to process it ever since. I guess part of me feels relieved because a lot of things about me finally make sense—like why I get overwhelmed so easily, why I have a hard time focusing unless it’s something I really enjoy, and why I’ve always felt kind of different from everyone else.
At the same time, I’m also confused and a little nervous. What does this actually mean for me? Will people start treating me differently? Should I tell my friends? I don’t want to be looked at like I’m “less than” or like there’s something wrong with me—because I don’t feel broken. Just different.
My parents say this diagnosis can help me get more support, especially at school, and that it doesn’t change who I am. I believe them, but it’s still a lot to take in. I was wondering if anyone else here has gone through something similar—getting diagnosed as a teen or even younger—and if you have any advice or things that helped you understand yourself better.
I’d really appreciate hearing from someone who gets it. Thanks for reading. 🙂
– Isla ⭐️💗
I totally get it. I didn't know much about autism until I watched a kind of spark in 2023 and I really saw myself in Addie. I started doing research and realised I am most likely autistic. Recently i also discovered im adhd.I haven't told many of my friends as I know they will either disagree or treat me as a different person altogether. Its hard and lonely but I am so close to telling my parents. What I would suggest is telling your friends if you feel comfortable but its not your responsibility to tell everyone. You're not broken or less than others, your just different, that's all. If you need support then you can get it but don't let others treat you like 2 diagnosisis change everything and that you're suddenly incapable to not do anything.
Hope this helps and sorry, I ramble.
Isla:)